Episode 8: The Cost of Being the Exception (And How to Break Free)

Jul 15, 2025

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If you’ve ever been called the first, the only, or the one who always figures it out—this episode is for you.

Being “the exception” can sound like a compliment. But for many high-achieving professionals, it’s a heavy, invisible contract. You carry the expectations of your family, your company, and your community—all while trying to hold yourself together.

In this solo episode, Lori opens up about:

  • The emotional cost of being “the one who made it”

  • What finally broke her high-performance façade

  • How to shift from being the exception to the example

She also shares the three traps most high achievers fall into—and how to break free:

  1. Getting rewarded for what should be shared

  2. Normalizing the unreasonable

  3. Feeling resentful but trapped in performance

Plus: Lori offers 3 powerful mindset shifts to help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion.

🎧 Tune in now and explore what it means to lead with clarity, courage, and JOY.

Reflection Prompts:

  • Where are you still striving to be the one who does it all?

  • What might open up if you stopped being the exception and started being yourself?

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